Here is a story that raises many questions and reveals what not to do if you are in a position of authority. In a surprising turn of events, a Georgia SWAT leader loses his composure and does the wrong thing after trading in his Ford F-150 pickup.
Grab your garage door opener if you trade your vehicle to the dealer.
There is a remarkable story from Houston County in Georgia, where some of the largest peach orchards in the world are located. This story is not peachy as a SWAT Lieutenant from the Houston County Sheriff's Office does the wrong thing.
In a surprising turn of events, a Georgia SWAT leader loses his composure and does the wrong thing after trading in his Ford F-150 pickup, a situation one wouldn't expect from someone in such a high-ranking position.
A report from TV station WMAZ in Macon, Georgia, says Lt. Spivey, who heads the Houston County Sheriff's Office department's SWAT team, "Has been suspended for two days after an argument at an auto dealership. An internal affair report says it was a dispute over a garage door opener."
Here is Lt. James Spivey's not-so-peachy story.
Lt. James Spivey, a Houston County SWAT Lieutenant, is having trouble at home because he has just gone through a divorce and has to give up his Ford F-150 pickup to satisfy the divorce orders from the court. This personal struggle, coupled with the stress of his job, led to a situation that was difficult for him to handle.
Spivey searched for the garage door opener in his pickup and found it missing after trading in his F-150. This resulted in an argument at Five Star Ford of Warner Robins that went downhill fast. Spivey is accused of slapping at and pushing a Ford dealer employee.
It's important to note that the story did not identify what vehicle he was trading in, but what would a macho police officer own? He would likely not own a Ford Mach-E or Ford Edge; he would drive a tough Ford F-150 pickup.
Before we look at what happened, here is a little background information.
It's a well-known fact that police offers have a high divorce rate, and there are many reasons why. A report from attorney Bryan Fagan offers valuable insights into the stress and mental health issues that police officers face.
He says, "Constant exposure to traumatic events, the pressure to make split-second life-altering decisions, and the demanding nature of the job can lead to significant mental health challenges for these brave men and women."
What should have been a typical vehicle trade-in turns into the police officer's worst nightmare.
Here's what happened, as reported by TV station WMAZ, citing an internal affairs report:
Lt. Spivey believed an employee of Five Star Ford in Warner Robins had the garage door opener he left in the Ford F-150 that changed ownership due to his divorce.
The report says that Spivey sent another police officer from Centerville to the Ford dealer's employee's house to get it. The employee told the officer he did not have it. The story of why the Ford employee would have kept a garage door opener is unclear.
After finding out the Ford dealer employee didn't give the officer the garage door opener, Lt. Spivey went to the Ford dealer in uniform and argued with the employee.
The TV station says, "The [sheriff's department] internal affairs report says the Five Star Ford worker didn't have the opener, and he didn't appreciate Spivey sending an officer to his house to get it or approaching him at work. They argued and raised their voices."
The report says, "The man insulted Spivey, leading both men to point fingers and slap each other's hands. That's when the report says Spivey pushed him."
"Spivey said get your finger out of my face. The man then told Spivey he needed to get out of my shop."
The internal affairs report says a Five Star supervisor stepped in and told the men to stop. Witnesses told investigators that Spivey walked away while saying there were "gonna be repercussions from this."
A Five Star Ford manager later told Spivey to stay away unless he was on official business.
The report concluded that Spivey didn't intend to start a fight at the dealership. Still, it said he violated department policy requiring that "an officer must at all times conduct himself in a manner which does not bring discredit to himself, the department, or the county."
This violation was based on witness accounts and the dealership employee's statement.
The dealership employee said he never had Spivey's garage door opener. Lt. Spivey's missing garage remote was never found.
Conclusion:
Lt. Spivey was clearly under emotional stress from his divorce, having to give up his Ford F-150 pickup, and he didn't handle it properly. He should have gone in without wearing his uniform and not trying to use his authority as a county sheriff.
The Ford dealer employee also did not handle it properly by not treating the SWAT team leader with respect. This incident underscores the importance of respect in conflict resolution, as a kind word and a willingness to help could have defused the situation.
Note: James "Bo" Spivey received the Deputy Sheriff of the Year Award of Valor from the Houston County Sheriff's Office-GA.
The Facebook post from 2021 says, "Congratulations to Sgt. Bo Spivey and Deputy Doug Blackmon are on receiving the Deputy Sheriff of the Year Award of Valor. We are so proud of you and your dedication to the citizens of Houston County."
Update to this post:
A reader gave me this information, which I will add to my story.
Rich says, "I've been married into a law enforcement family "sheriff's," for over 30 years. This SWAT guy has an acute illness that affects the vast majority of law enforcement, causing divorce, road rage, bullying, and a host of other dangerous behaviors. It's called the "god complex," and yes, this is an accurate term known in that occupation. Our family firsthand has suffered many years of brutality that has destroyed the souls of young children and spouses. Please understand that you are making excuses regarding their behavior."
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I am Denis Flierl, a Senior Torque News Reporter since 2012. My 30+ year tenure in the automotive industry, initially in a consulting role with every major car brand and later as a freelance journalist test-driving new vehicles, has equipped me with a wealth of knowledge. I specialize in reporting the latest automotive news and providing expert analysis on Subaru, which you'll find here, ensuring that you, as a reader, are always well-informed and up-to-date. Follow me on my X SubaruReport, All Subaru, WRXSTI, @DenisFlierl, Facebook, and Instagram.
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First of all if he felt that…
First of all if he felt that strongly he should have attempted to develop probable cause and ask for a warrant
Secondly police officer or not. When he conducts his self in manners he had. Why would he feel he is entitled to respect
That badge and uniform really means very little other than he purposely used it for intimidation
While I've never traded a…
While I've never traded a vehicle, I take it to the dealer for oil changes. The fact that my fuel door cracked the second summer I owned it and fell off about a year later isn't bad enough, but I put it in the glove box. On my next oil change, someone removed it and it hasn't been seen since. Now when I replace it, I also have to pay for painting. I could have reused the old door on the new part.
Absolutely unprofessional…
Absolutely unprofessional and disgusting behavior from an officer of the law. It was just a remote that could have been easily replaced. And he should have got more than two days suspended and hopefully not with pay. That technically was assault. He needs to be retrained in deescalation . People are losing it real quick with no patience!!!
What a blately biased…
What a blately biased article. It has little to do with cars, hightlighting the authors distain for police.
Sorry officer, the articles…
Sorry officer, but the article is fair. Your comrade was out of line.
P.s. God Complex is prevelant amongst those burdened with the power to choose life or death for society at large.
I left a signed Bible in my…
I left a signed Bible in my Nissan Altima I traded in to Sandy Sansing of Daphne, AL. It was a Bible that had my name and signed by Dr. Cain Hope Felder. The Bible was an African Heritage Bible that he authored. I really would love to have it back. I inquired, but no one claimed they saw it. I pray it’s in a good home, if not returned to me.
I cannot even remotely…
I cannot even remotely understand how any dealership that accepts a trade or sell from a client would be difficult in returning the original owners personal property. You know who the vehicle belonged to and their phone number as well as their address, why would you not call them and advise them some personal property was left in the vehicle. It appears to me that the dealership was negligent and provoked the person. Yes the officer handled it incorrectly as well, but stress as well as his families safety was hanging in the aura. Officers have to be careful these days and for someone to have their garage door opener is a definite potential for a dangerous situation. Divorce is hard and strenuous and to loose personal property that you love as well as family can be stressful.
One thing I’ve definitely…
One thing I’ve definitely noticed in buying used cars from a dealer is that almost every time the infotainment system still has the prior owners contacts and history. I’m surprised that deleting these things isn’t part of taking in the car.
As a dealership owner you…
As a dealership owner you give what you get. Come in to my dealer with an attitude and get it back. Touch one of my employees I don't care who you are, they can knock you out and I'll help you throw out his bruised body. The customer isn't always right. We rarely have confrontations but when we do when the energy is matched the customer will back down
I worked at a Ford…
I worked at a Ford dealership in Brazoria county, Texas. The sheriff's department leased their fleet from us. When the sheriff traded in his big Mercury Marquis, for another, I did the make-ready. When cleaning out the old one, I discovered 2 pistols in the glovebox. I just closed it, and told the office lady to call the department and send him back, without saying why. I hadn't touched either of them, not wanting my prints on them.
I'm sure he appreciated…
I'm sure he appreciated getting them back so that he could sell them to criminals and turn a profit by embezzling tax payer money. Where do you think he sold the grenade launcher though?
I wonder, how many times the…
I wonder, how many times the cops were called, to this "heros" house, after he beat his wife and the reports were buried? You know, he's an unhinged individual! Why not do some real investigating and report, on that?
Dang, is the reporter paid…
Dang, is the reporter paid by the word? It's almost like they're writing a high school paper. Paraphrasing the same thing over and over before getting to the point. We got it. He was in swat, a swat officer, a swat lieutenant, missing a remote control, a remote control garage door opener, a garage door opener. He was driving an f150, we don't know if it was an f150, that's what a macho cop would drive. Here's my thoughts on what he wouldn't drive.
To say he should have…
To say he should have treated the officer with more respect is taking sides. Remember that the office sent another officer to his personal residence accusing him of stealing the garage remote. That's over the line right there, initiated by the officer in question.
To say he should have…
To say he should have treated the officer with more respect is taking sides. Remember that the office sent another officer to his personal residence accusing him of stealing the garage remote. That's over the line right there, initiated by the officer in question. Showing this officer has no respect and thinks little of the Ford employee in question.
This sounds about like…
This sounds about like Wagoner County Sheriff Chris Elliott losing control of his temper tugging a d dragging a female inmate by her hair. The video is on YouTube
just type in Wagoner County Sheriff Chris Elliott drags female inmate by her hair. A video that the sheriff's office deleted but luckily a jailer recorded with his phone before it was deleted. The corrupt district attorney here failed to prosecute as they protect their own here for crimes they commit, the same crimes that others are prosecuted for.
He's a LT. with the Police…
He's a LT. with the Police dept. and thought it would be ok to slap someone because more then likely he missed placed his remote or his ex probably has it. He needs more than a 2 day rip. He needs to be fired. That's totally unacceptable behavior for a Police Officer. Then they wonder why No one respects them. This is a good reason why. He needs to be gone like yesterday!
No the man at the dealer did…
No the man at the dealer did not do anything wrong. The officer was not behaving in a manner that deserved any respect. In fact he was acting crazy. Don't excuse police misbehavior cause the job is stressful. Even comics teach you that with power comes responsibility. 2 days is not enough he needs anger management and a year of mental health review in my opinion. To think this man is allowed to carry a weapon and make split second life ending decisions and he's making crazy accusations about a garage door opener? You guys are acting like that's not a dangerous person to be wielding a deadly weapon...crazy
Don't make excuses for the…
Don't make excuses for the cop. There was no reason for the shop to respect his authority if he couldn't respect others as people.
This had nothing at all to…
This had nothing at all to do with trading in a vehicle. You really shouldn't make up details when writing an article. The vehicle changed hand between Spivey's girlfriend and he ex husband's friend who works at the dealership.
This is a huge problem in…
This is a huge problem in the law enforcement community. Officers constantly seem to forget that you have to give respect to get it. Wearing that badge doesn't demand respect from anyone. Given the history of the police community in this country of manipulation of laws and harassment to prosecute innocent citizens simply for not showing Officers respect that they have repeatedly not earned from the citizens of this country. Everyone can agree that they have a difficult job. With that being said, they chose this line of work and quite frankly they have created most of the stress with the years misconduct of the citizens of this country. Let's be clear here. I live in Houston County and know this Officer very well. I will simply say that he created his own mess. He should be charged with assault quite simply because had any citizen touched his hand would in fact be charged immediately. That is just a fact and regardless of the situation, around here the Officers are considered always correct even after being proven to alter accounts of true events. I personally have had enough of the law enforcement community acting above the law. We have all seen it or been on the wrong side of this simple fact. That badge doesn't make any have to respect you. Lead by example! This attitude of do what I say, not as I do has got to stop. My apologies to the few honest and respectful Officers across the country. It's a fact that this Officer is not one of them. Lock him up! Had he not been a cop he would already be charged and in jail. We all know it.
Anyone who wants to be a cop…
Anyone who wants to be a cop at this point in time, probably shouldn't be one. The lawyers and judges are getting to be as bad too. Those proffessions attract the worst in society the way they currently operate. Gangsters who wouldnt make it if they didnt have a badge to hide behind.
So he was emotionally…
So he was emotionally distraught but still armed? Wow what could go wrong?
So if a cop hits you nothing…
So if a cop hits you nothing, if shoe was on other foot Big jail time! Lock him up fair is fair. They think they are above the law, most people respect police, but most of them have chips on their shoulders.
Stop making excuses for this…
Stop making excuses for this cop's actions. Nothing he did was reasonable under any conditions. This behavior is why he's getting divorced.
I have forgotten things like…
I have forgotten things like Fast Trak transponder and garage door openers in tradeins. I have been fortunate that all dealers I have worked with made a point of helping me search the vehicle for any personal items emwhen I turned in the vehicle. When we somehow missed stuff I got a call from the service department to collect a box of stuff they found when prepping the vehicle for sale or auction. There have been items I was sure I left in the trade that never showed up, but the dealers have always been great about helping us search the vehicle.
Don't make excuses for him…
Don't make excuses for him lots of people have personal problems and don't go around slapping people over little things. Someone in a position of authority who resorts to violence so easily should not be on the force.
So, a law enforcement…
So, a law enforcement officer can assault another person and not be charged?
How would that go if a non law enforcement officer hit an officer?
Is this a case of Rules for Thee, Not for Me?
Is there a double standard?
Should this officer lose his job and go to prison for assault?
I can understand why the…
I can understand why the officer was under a lot of stress. He should have contained himself better. The added threat of repercussions should not have been said. In simple terms he should meet with the employee and apologize and let it go at that. I also think they should give place the officer on paid leave so he can get his life sorted out. Under current conditions he won’t do anyone any good to continue as long as he’s carrying that weight around. Divorce can be very tough especially for men. They tend to get the raw end of the divorce and their heads are not in the right place.
The cop should be fired…
The cop should be fired. This article is making assumptions that are not necessarily in evidence. I'll make an assumption. The guy at the car dealership probably said we looked in the car and didn't find it, sorry. The sheriff probably made sure everything was out of his car before he traded it in. The fact that the sheriff deputy sent another officer to the guy's house abusing his authority to find a garage door opener is ridiculous. Pointing fingers and pushing somebody is ridiculous. Pushing somebody as battery and he should be charged with a crime. But no we did an internal investigation and we've suspended him for 2 days is bullpoop. Fire the sheriff's deputy.